There have been numerous assertions concerning how to increase intimacy in relationship without ‘biting the cookie’.
Some are even of the opinion that there is no way sex will not be involved when talking about intimacy in relationships between two grown-ups.
However, I can particularly tell you that sex is not everything in a relationship. In fact, sex tends to dictate, manipulate and erode some reactions which ought to be neutral in your relationship. Here are five non-sexual ways you can step-up your relationship, make it stronger and even work better.
1. Communicate.
Communication plays vital role in a relationship. Spending quality time together, talking about your aspirations, likes, dislikes and old experiences tend to strengthen your relationship. Nagging, being mentally pre-occupied without your partner’s knowledge can be pull you away from your spouse, hence, communication.
2. Be Open
Let your partner be sure you are on the same boat. When it is ‘sinking’, you both are sinking together. This feeling goes a long way to tell how committed an individual can be in a relationship. No one wants to hang on to someone they do not trust.
3. Be Attractive always
Most people get it wrong by trying all their best to dress down just to make themselves less attractive to their spouses. If you have been doing that, you will have to stop. It is a relationship and you guys are lovers; If he/she finds you attractive, note that it’s not solely because of your looks but because both of you are lovers. That still doesn’t mean you should not look great!
4. Do fun stuff together
Always find time to do fun stuff together. Fun stuff does not necessarily mean sex although it can lead to it. The golden rule is ‘no sex’, so you should know when to stop while doing those fun stuff together. Dance while he watches (for ladies), exercise together, tease and let him or her know that you are with him both in body, soul and spirit.
5. Write Notes
Send them loving messages without any occasion. Remind them what you really love about them and how they make your life illuminated with their presence in it.
Don’t sexualize your relationship!
Naij
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