Men now elope with their girlfriends because of high bride price in Tiv- Benue First lady

The wife of the Benue State Governor, Eunice Ortom, has appealed to Tor Tiv-elect, James Ayatse, to review bride-prices in Tiv land, to enable young men get married “when due”.  

Mrs. Ortom made the appeal on Tuesday, when she paid a courtesy visit to the Tor Tiv-elect in Makurdi.  She decried the high demands made on young men seeking to marry Tiv daughters, and described the situation as “very discouraging”.      

“Such high demands discourage many bachelors from even attempting to get married; the result is that many young girls cannot find husbands,” she said.   The governor’s wife argued that such exorbitant charges were not part of Tiv culture.    

 “Such charges are imported; our traditional rulers should discard them,” she said.   While noting that bride-price payment was sacrosanct, she cautioned parents against selling their daughters “especially since the relationship between in-laws remains, long after such marriage rites”. 

She said she regretted that many young men now preferred to elope with their loved ones owing to such huge monetary demands, and stressed the need to make the process affordable so as to restore the sanctity of the marriage institution.